Wednesday, August 28, 2013

How do I want to live the rest of my life?




Friends were sharing an article on Facebook today titled "30 things to stop doing to yourself". The article starts with an opening phrase which I like, it says "When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you."
The article also referred to Maria Robinson's quote, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”  But beyond these few lines, I don't quite resonate with the rest of the article, probably because there is no need for me to "stop" doing any of the things that were mentioned. Rather, it is about adding more to the positive attributes that I have already found. I think it would be more useful to develop my own positive list and wish lists, setting out the things that I should do or do more for myself. Here I go:-


1. Spend time nurturing quality relationships, whether it's family, love or friendships
2. My needs are very important
3. Look inward for my happiness
4. Seize every moment, give the best I have to give
5. Pay attention to the beauty of even the smallest things and smallest moments
6. Do something extraordinary
7. Be grateful
8. Be compassionate
9. Be happy
10. Be who I am 
11. Be brave 

12. Have fun always


The Fun Bucket List

1. RacingThePlanet 4Deserts series & roving races
2. The Mustang Trail Race
3. Action Asia Nepal, Mongolia
4. The Most Beautiful Thing, Malaysia
5. Bagan Temple Run, Burma
6. The Ancient Khmer Path, Cambodia
7. Marathon De Sables
8. The North Face series 
9. UTMF & UTMB
10. Grand 2 Grand

11. Chasqui Challenge, Peru
12. La Ultra-The High, Ladakh, India
13. Lots of fun marathons around the world: Medoc, Istanbul, Jerusalem, Berlin and many others...

The "Make a Difference" Bucket List

Travel to some of my dream destinations including Afghanistan, Burma, Africa and Latin America. Do something meaningful, something that can make a difference to the lives of the people there. But of course, I would like to  contribute just as much to local communities here in HK.